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Oct 31, 2024

Best vibrator to get your buzz on: Top options from Lelo, Maude and Lovehoney | British GQ

Keen to start your day with a positive vibe? Here are the best vibrators to level up your sex life. All products are independently selected by our editors. If you buy something, we may earn an

Keen to start your day with a positive vibe? Here are the best vibrators to level up your sex life.

All products are independently selected by our editors. If you buy something, we may earn an affiliate commission.

If you're looking to invest in the best vibrator, you might be surprised by just how many options there are out there. Gone are the days when a bullet or a rabbit were the only two tools on offer. Now, the world of sex toys is quickly expanding and there are many sex toys for women to stimulate the body in different ways, as well as a wide array of sex toys for couples, offering plenty of experimental ways to feel good together.

Vibrators are a great choice for solo play, for people with vulvas, or as a way to add something new to sex with your partner. On the most basic level: if you're looking to help your partner reach orgasm, and have lots of them, a vibrator is a great investment. In fact, research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine has found that women who use vibrators have more orgasms than women who don't. Of course, when you get your hands on one of the products we've recommended below, you won't need scientists to tell you that they'll boost the vibes in the bedroom. You're welcome.

Lelo

Lelo

For people who enjoy suction toys, the Lelo Sona Cruise is the gold standard. It's made with clever technology which creates sonic pulses that resonate deeply into the internal structure of the clitoris, meaning this vibrator makes for some seriously intense orgasms. It also has a slightly larger surface area than some suction vibrators, which not only makes it suitable for all shapes and sizes but can also intensify pleasure, as the wider head will help to distribute pulses more evenly, for more sophisticated sensations.

There are 12 settings, which means it's suitable for everyone, whether you're a complete newbie with suction toys or you're looking to upgrade a toy that has been very well-used. Considering the technology that goes into suction vibrators like this one, higher-end toys tend to produce higher-intensity orgasms. Given how much use your partner is bound to get out of it, you may as well invest in one that's going to last – and Lelo is a brand that you can trust. Check out more of LELO's Black Friday deals here.

Satisfyer

Satisfyer

This is a handy toy for clitoral stimulation using suction technology, and it also falls on the slightly more affordable side for these types of toys. Ideal if you're not sure if suction vibrators are for you but want to try them out, this toy has 11 pressure wave settings, so there's plenty of room for experimentation. Start with the gentler settings and work your way up over time – the suction technology can be less intense than vibrations, but you can make your orgasms last longer by sticking with some of the lower suction settings, rather than going all out straight away.

This toy is made with super-soft silicone, so it feels luxe, and it's waterproof, making it easy to clean and suitable for shower sex. Plus, it's whisper-quiet, so absolutely no one will know it's helping you give your partner the best orgasms they've ever had.

Maude

Maude

Maude is the new kid on the vibrator block (we wish that was a thing), co-created by none other than Dakota Johnson. Their toys are simple and chic, designed for someone who would prefer not to have numerous purple dildos peeking out of their bedside table. But just because their vibrators aren't outlandish, doesn't mean they aren't effective. Their signature product – the Vibe – is a fine case in point. Available in a couple of discreet colours, the handheld vibrator has three vibration modes, so you can make things feel more intense without any faff. The flutter-tip design means there are various stimulation points across the vibrator, depending on your preference, and it's small enough to fit in your hand.

We'd recommend this toy if you're new to the world of vibrators and want something that's simple but effective. Oh, and did we mention it's featured in the MoMA Design Store? We've always thought of sex toys as modern art, anyway.

Lelo

Lelo

The Enigma is one of Lelo's latest releases, and although its design makes it look a little alien, when you get to grips with this toy, it will feel right at home in your vibrator collection. It's another toy that's designed for both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, but the clever part of Enigma is that the internal part of the toy vibrates and moves inside of you, using a technology Lelo calls WaveMotion. This makes for mind-boggling orgasms, combined with the clitoral stimulation it provides, and it's probably one of the most impressive toys out there when it comes to exploring blended orgasms.

This might not be one for beginners, unless you're confident with external and internal stimulation at the same time, but if you're after a vibrator for someone whose collection is already taking up an entire drawer, this could be one they haven't tried yet… and will be very excited about.

Lovense

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This clitoral stimulator uses impressive suction technology that is designed to mimic oral sex, so it's the perfect toy for anyone who generally reaches orgasm via oral and wants to recreate that on their own. With up to 4,500 pulses per minute, this toy stimulates over 8,000 nerves on the clitoris, so a lot is going on. But the best part about suction vibrators is that they're gentle, so even with so much stimulation and pleasure, your body shouldn't get too tired or sore. We also like that you can create and save patterns with this toy, so you can recreate your favourite orgasms without having to press a million buttons, trying to figure out exactly what it was that made your partner feel so good the other day.

Use this toy together or when you're apart using the toy's app, designed specifically for long-distance couples.

Lelo

Lelo

Another Lelo product, but this one is for internal stimulation. The GiGi, as you might have guessed by the name, is the G-spot toy that you have to try. It's designed with complete precision to ensure the orgasms it creates are like nothing you've ever experienced, with a flattened head (which helps to ensure orgasms are deep and powerful) and extra soft silicone that feels like a luxury.

Plus, you're really getting 2-in-1 with this toy, as it's designed to be flipped and used as a clitoral massager, too – ideal if you're looking to unlock multiple orgasms with your partner, or you're not quite sure what they like yet and want to experiment.

It comes in four colours and feels a little bit more sophisticated than your typical vibrators, so we think that this one makes a great gift for her if you're looking for something special.

We-Vibe

We-vibe

Another couple's toy, and this one has the bonus of providing some clitoral stimulation during penetration. If your partner is someone who enjoys external and internal stimulation simultaneously, this is the toy for you both. It will take some playing around with before you find the right position for this toy, but when you find it, you'll know about it. To use it, apply some lube to the internal arm and insert it into the vagina while applying the outer arm to the clitoris. This toy is also designed to be used during penetration, for an experience that is overwhelming in the best possible way.

It's a very quiet toy and it's easy to charge, so it's worth making the most of it on special occasions. We bet there's a strong possibility it could become a regular part of your sex life very quickly.

Lelo

Lelo

You've probably heard of a rabbit vibrator, but you might not have realised just how game-changing they are when it comes to making your partner feel amazing. Rabbits are the ideal toy for the indecisive. Can't decide whether you want to stick with clitoral stimulation or explore the G-spot? With the rabbit, you don't have to choose, as it's designed to stimulate both points at once, and this vibrator from Lelo is very effective at doing so.

With an extended tip and a thicker arm, the Soraya is perfectly designed to hit the G-spot just right. The external stimulator is completely flexible, too, meaning it suits all shapes and sizes – you can play around with it until you find the spot that is just right. You know you're getting a luxury toy when you buy from Lelo, so we'd recommend this one for gifting, with three different colours to choose from.

Dame

Dame

Think of this vibrator like your finger but better. It's one of the easiest toys to use – you simply attach it to your hand and turn it on. From there, you can experiment with stimulating your clitoris, as well as other areas of the body to figure out what feels good. It makes for a good gift for someone who you know wants to start experimenting with vibrators but is feeling nervous about it. This toy is also ideal for partner play, especially if you want to start adding vibrators into your sex life while keeping things intimate and without feeling too overwhelmed.

This toy is also great for the shower, as the finger attachment minimises slipping and sliding, and it's completely waterproof. Play around with the three intensity levels to find what you like, and remember you can experiment with applying different amounts of pressure and various massage techniques, too.

Lelo

Lelo

Another toy from Lelo, and this one is specifically designed for couples, ensuring mutual satisfaction. It's a ring which is designed to be placed on the penis with the vibrating area facing up so that it can stimulate your partner during penetration. It's simple to use, but it could be just the thing to level up your sex life, particularly if you've been looking to try something new. With eight powerful settings, there's plenty to experiment with and you don't need to mess about pressing buttons in the heat of the moment as the toy is app-controlled (this is the only time we'd encourage scrolling during sex).

Made with ultra-smooth premium silicone, this vibrator will feel comfortable for both partners. Just make sure to use plenty of lube when putting it on, and adding some more when you need it.

Lovehoney

Lovehoney

A wand is a toy everyone should have stashed in their collection. It's one of the biggest types of vibrators you'll find and it makes for very, very big vibrations. Probably not one for beginners, wands are designed for really stepping up your orgasm game. We'd recommend them for partner play, as they're easy to use compared to fiddling around with a bullet. Plus, you can use them all over the body, teasing with a full-body massage before progressing to direct stimulation on the clitoris. However, it's important to note that you shouldn't use wands for internal stimulation.

This wand from Lovehoney is quite literally magic. It's cordless, which many wands aren't, but that doesn't diminish its power. In fact, there are eight vibration settings on this one. It's also made with an extra long handle, which is ergonomic, to say the least.

Smile Makers

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Smilemakers are known for products that look as good as they feel. With design at the heart of the brand, its toys make an amazing gift for anyone who considers exactly how something might fit with their aesthetic before investing. This toy in particular will suit that sporty someone in your life, with a rounded head vibrator, modelled off a tennis ball. It's a different design for G-spot stimulation than most vibrators in this space, so it's worth a try if your partner is struggling to achieve that elusive G-spot orgasm (although, remember, that this isn't something every woman can do, physiologically).

Whether you're playing with your partner or they're using it for solo play, definitely use some lube with this toy and play around with the fit until you (hopefully) find the spot.

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There's an array of different vibrators out there to choose from, so it's worth having a chat with your partner(s) about what they like. You can ask them if they've used a vibrator before, and if there's a particular kind they like, or maybe if there's something new they're looking to experiment with.

If they haven't used a vibrator before, there are a few different types to consider:

You and your partner might not know exactly what type of vibrator you like before you try them out, but a good way to think about it is by comparing them to the type of stimulation they enjoy without toys. For example, if they enjoy the pleasure and orgasms they experience during penetrative sex, an internal vibrator is a great option. Or, if they tend to get off via clitoral stimulation, external vibrators could hit the spot.

Suction vibrators are kind of in a league of their own, as they're made with very clever technology which makes for a totally unique orgasm. However, many people with vulvas compare them to the sensations they experience during oral sex. Suction vibrators are also a more gentle and non-invasive option compared to the other two, making them ideal if the person who is going to be using them is a little bit more sensitive.

Finally, let's talk about vibrators for couples, which are cleverly designed to stimulate both of you at once, generally during penetrative sex. These toys vary but generally offer internal and or/external vibrations to the clit and G-Spot, as well as adding some extra stimulation for the partner with a penis. Some people find this extremely pleasurable, while others might find it a bit much, but we've curated plenty of options above that should suit everyone, no matter your preferences.

If you've never experimented with using a vibrator during sex with your partner(s) before, you'll be glad to know that it's pretty straightforward. Generally, it's as simple as clicking a button or two, and finding the right spot, which your partner should be able to help you with (communication is key and a great opportunity for dirty talk too, if you're into that).

The exact mechanics of using a vibrator depends entirely on the type you choose, so it's worth taking a look at the guidelines to figure out where you should direct your attention. Usually, internal vibrators are inserted into the vagina, while external vibrators are placed on the clitoris, or if you're sensitive, around the clitoris.

It's always a good idea to ease yourself into things, which is the perfect opportunity for some teasing, too. Try applying the vibrator on different parts of your partner's body – with their consent, of course. Many people enjoy the stimulation around areas like their inner thighs and nipples.

Always apply lube when using a vibrator, to ensure the insertion and application of the toy is pain-free and seamless. You can apply your lube directly to the toy, or rub a little onto your hand first.

It's very common to use a vibrator with your partner, so there shouldn't be any shame around bringing it up, from either party. Crucially, if your partner expresses that they'd like to start using a vibrator during partnered sex, don't take it personally. Vibrators can be an incredible way to enhance your sex life - it doesn't mean that you don't enjoy sex without toys, but equally, enjoying it more while using them doesn't have anything to do with your performance or intimacy.

In fact, according to research by women's health app Flo, 58 per cent of women aren't fully satisfied with the quality of their orgasms and 62 per cent aren't fully satisfied with the frequency. Moreover, 46 per cent of women want to learn more about what turns them on and being open to conversations about using vibrators is an incredible way to help you and your partner(s) expand your sex lives.

Remember that consent is key, so ensure both you and your partner(s) are comfortable with whatever toys you decide to use. To help with this, you could go shopping together, either in person or online, and explore what appeals to you both in real-time. If your partner isn't comfortable with something you suggest, don't pressure them – there are plenty of options to explore and, equally, if they don't want to use a vibrator together, it's important to respect that. The same is true vice versa, and it's important that you're able to communicate to your partner about why or why not you don't want to use a particular vibrator or any vibrator, if that is the case.

Overall, this should be a fun, exciting thing for you to explore together, so try to calm any nerves with the thought that investing in a new vibrator could be just the thing to take your sex life to the next level.

Most vibrators are made with silicone, which is durable, flexible and generally body-friendly, so it's a great choice. Some people are allergic to silicone, so this is something to take into account when choosing a vibrator.

When it comes to features, most vibrators have no more than three buttons to help you use them (generally an on-and-off switch and buttons to control the settings and intensity). Some vibrators can also be connected to apps, so you can use them hands-free and these toys are also a great option for long-distance couples.

You should clean your vibrator after use to keep things hygienic and avoid issues like UTIs and thrush. If you're using a vibrator with different partners, it's particularly important to clean it thoroughly after every use, to avoid passing on sexually transmitted illnesses (STIs). In fact, it's even worth using a condom on the vibrator if you are planning on using it with different partners, in order to be extra careful, as well as being honest with a new partner if you have used the vibrator with someone else in the past.

When it comes to cleaning, you can get specific toy cleaners that work a treat and generally don't contain anything that will be too harsh on the genitals. Equally, warm soapy water will do the job, although it might be worth opting for a hypoallergenic soap to avoid irritation.