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Jun 01, 2023

15 Best Quiet Vibrators in 2023, According to Sex Therapists

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From couple's toys to wearables, these options are great for intimate play.

When it's "me time," the last thing you want is to feel embarrassed or paranoid about someone overhearing your loud vibrator. You could always blast your music, but if it's not something you usually do, it might seem out of the ordinary. That's what makes a quiet vibrator so great—it provides all of the pleasure without noise. In fact, silent sex toys are designed specifically to help you reach orgasm discreetly.

Every brand of sex toy has its strengths and weaknesses, and silent vibrators are no exception. When choosing a discrete toy, considering the motor is crucial. "Generally, bigger motors are noisier than smaller ones. In addition, some brands use whisper-quiet motors, which are significantly quieter than regular models," says Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and cofounder of My Sex Toy Guide. Another feature you’ll want to look for is a rechargeable battery. "The traditional battery-powered models are usually associated with a rattling sound in the battery compartment, especially in high settings," she explains.

Meet the Experts: Joni Ogle, L.C.S.W, C.S.A.T, a sex addiction therapist and CEO of The Heights Treatment; Melissa Cook, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and writer for FunwithFeetRachel; Sommer, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and cofounder of My Sex Toy Guide; Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., a certified sex therapist and relationship expert at SexualAlpha.

Some quiet vibrators are better suited for certain situations, like if you want a remote-control vibrator that's whisper-quiet for couples (spice up your long-distance date idea!) or a water-proof option for some solo shower play. We talked to several sex experts to determine the best quiet vibrators to suit your wants and needs.

If you’re looking for a private but pleasurable session, look no further than this petite and quiet vibrator. The Je Joue Mimi Soft has five quiet intensity speeds and seven patterns, including a unique "wave" mode that opens up a whole new world of sensations. Ogle says that "its ultra-low frequency vibrations and whisper-quiet motor provide intense but discreet pleasure, allowing for more satisfying intimate moments that remain uninterrupted by loud, unwanted humming or buzzing." Its ergonomic shape and soft silicone material give extra comfort and security when using the toy, all making for a great overall experience.

This cute rosebud vibrator went viral on TikTok—and for good reason. Several customer reviews call the suction a "soul snatcher" as it, according to users, has you orgasming in seconds. This toy is perfect for those looking to get the job done quickly—not for those who prefer to take their time.

Looking for a way to spice things up in the bedroom? This vibrator has you covered. "The Tiani 3 is made to offer discreet gratification without sacrificing power. It has an incredibly quiet motor so that it won't interfere with your enjoyment," explains Dr. Moore. The toy comes equipped with a remote control that lets you easily control the vibrations. It simultaneously stimulates your clit and G-spot and your partner. Fifty decibels—similar to background noise in a quiet neighborhood—is its loudest volume.

Don't be fooled by the price. This bullet vibrator still packs a wallop at more than half the cost of other name-brand vibrations. Its sleek and compact size makes it easy to throw in your bag when you need to destress. The caveat is the noise. While quieter than other bullets, some customer reviews have pointed out that the vibrations carry some sound.

Cook says one of the best features of this rabbit-style vibrator is its flexible clitoral arm. Not only does it guarantee constant clitoris play, but the flexibility allows you to hit that G-spot every time. The toy also comes with a We-Vibe that lets you unlock more vibration and intensity options. You can operate the smartphone app over long distances, making it a great addition to long-distance foreplay with your partner.

According to Cook and Dr. Sommer, Dame Pom stands out as the best choice for beginners. The curve edges and pointed head make it easy for a newbie to reach climax on the first try. Its flexible and silicone form also lets it be comfortably used for internal and external play.

If you have some money to splurge on premium toys, consider investing in the Lovense Hyphy dual-ended vibrator. Dr. Sommer says this versatile sex toy is worth the price tag when you can enjoy external and internal stimulation at the press of a button. The curved silicone body precisely targets the G-spot and the other high-frequency end mimics a tongue sensation on your clitoris. The product comes with three attachments to stimulate your nipples, thighs, and other body parts. Dr. Sommer recommends investing the extra dollars if you’re in a long-distance relationship, as it's super compatible with the Lovense remote app.

The world's first-ever biodegradable sex toy, this vibrator is made up of starch-based bioplastic that emits fewer greenhouse emissions than other vibrator designs, according to the brand. While it has a dial that lets you opt for one of multiple vibration speeds, it can get as loud as a vacuum cleaner. So definitely not as quiet as some of the other options on this list.

The Womanizer Liberty is a must-have travel companion. Its compact size and sleek protective case let you slide it stealthily into your handbag. The small but mighty device uses pulsating waves for contactless suction that customers rave can get you to orgasm in less than five minutes. Dr. Sommer says it is the "most silent vibrator I have ever reviewed," with noise levels falling between 34 to 61 decibels at the highest setting (the volume of a normal conversation between two people).

Take this toy for some naughty bathtime. "The perfect compromise between power and a low profile," notes one customer review. The Lelo Siri 2 is made of body-safe silicone, has a discreet design, and is silent even on the highest setting.

Cook says wand vibrators are generally more powerful than other types of sex toys, so they can also be quite noisy. But there are some exceptions. The Doxy Die Cast is a powerful wand vibrator with 20% more intensity than the original model. With an additional 190 grams of weight, it's heavy enough for you to place it for a hands-free session. Customers recommend buying directly from the site instead of a third-party seller for a guaranteed warranty.

The Womanizer Premium is a fan-favorite for a reason. The clitoral vibrators use air pulse technology to deliver intense sensations. One of the best features is autopilot mode. Once you position it in the right place, the toy will take you through 12 different intensity levels selected at random to give you it lets you a unique orgasm experience. According to one satisfied customer, "the Womanizer delivers, over and over again."

Despite being only 3.5 inches, Dr. Moore says the We-Vibe Tango it's "powerful enough to cause unforgettable orgasms." Hundreds of customer reviews rave about its whisper-quiet motor and its slanted tip gives you the pleasure you need without making your clitoris numb like other cheap vibrators. Ogle says this toy would be great for more experienced users who are looking to explore something new. The We-Vibe Tango has eight intensity levels, seven vibration modes, and adjustable speed settings.

The We-Vibe Rave will help you have a good time. The unique asymmetrical shape helps to reach the G-spot, and customers say a slight twist and thrust help create some toe-curling pressure. The vibrator also has remote capabilities, with an app for people engaging in long-distance play.

Wearable vibrators are becoming more popular, and there's a reason the Lovense Lush 3 is dominating this corner of the market. First and foremost, the toy is extremely quiet. At 43 decibels, it's like the noise you would hear in a library. Dr. Moore says the silicone egg vibrator is a body-safe and extremely soft toy that becomes even more silent when inserted. You can pick between three speeds and four patterns to send powerful vibrations to your G-spot. "When you have this inside of you, shopping can only get more exciting," she says. Though Dr. Moore warns that this is not wearable for anal play as the toy could potentially get lost.

Noise level: If you’re shopping around for silent vibrators, the most important thing to look for is a vibrator that is marketed as "silent" or "quiet." These vibrators are made to work at a low decibel level, meaning the sounds won't travel through walls or doors.

Product material: Silicone is considered the most comfortable and body-safe option. It's also easy to clean and does not create a lot of friction noise when using it. Vibrators made up of ABS plastic are usually more affordable but may not provide enough cushioning. Plastic and metal are usually louder than softer materials like silicone or rubber.

Vibration intensity: The vibrators listed in this article pack a punch while not making it obvious what you’re doing in your alone time. In general, you’ll need to strike a balance between vibration intensity and noise level.

Vibrator size and shape: Small and compact toys often make less noise than bigger ones. Some shapes are easier to hide from nosy people suspicious of your actions. For example, a small bullet vibrator is more discreet than a rabbit vibrator.

Our team consulted Joni Ogle, a sex addiction therapist and CEO of The Heights Treatment, Melissa Cook, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and writer for FunwithFeet, Dr. Rachel Sommer, a clinical sexologist and cofounder of My Sex Toy Guide, and Dr. Aliyah Moore, a certified sex therapist and relationship expert at SexualAlpha. We also evaluated dozens of customer reviews to narrow down the best silent vibrators for your needs and preferences.

For more than 70 years, Prevention has been a leading provider of trustworthy health information, empowering readers with practical strategies to improve their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Our editors interview medical experts to help guide our health-focused product selections. Prevention also examines hundreds of reviews—and often conducts personal testing done by our staff—to help you make informed decisions.

Jocelyn Solis-Moreira is a freelance health and science journalist that has written on a number of health topics for publications such as Popular Science, Health, Forbes, and Yahoo! Health. Her past experience as a neuroscience researcher studying alcohol addiction and knowledge of science has made her well-equipped to explain new scientific discoveries and translate medical jargon into information people can use in their everyday lives. When she's not writing, Jocelyn enjoys traveling and doing aerial arts.

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