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May 22, 2023

The Best Quiet Vibrators and Sex Toys to Try if You Prefer Making Minimal Noise

By Suzannah Weiss All products featured on Teen Vogue are independently selected

By Suzannah Weiss

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There's no denying that sex toys are a lot of fun to play with, but nothing kills a steamy solo session like loud, awkward motor noises, especially when you've got thin walls and roommates right next door (eeek!). That's exactly why we've assembled this list of the best quiet vibrators on the market.

Though privacy is, of course, a solid reason to seek out a whisper quiet bullet vibrator, wand vibrator, or dildo, the advantage of these types of toys goes beyond discretion.

"Getting a quiet toy is useful not just for privacy purposes but also so that the sound of your toy doesn't distract you, says Shamyra Howard, a certified sex therapist and sex educator based in Los Angeles.

When it comes to shopping for quiet vibes, Howard recommends going for a toy that's rechargeable and not battery-operated. "The noise that emanates from a vibrator is a combination of the motor and the batteries," she explains.

You should also take note of the type of materials. "It can be helpful to look for squishier materials, like soft silicones or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer), advises Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations and author of The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone. "This is because the soft material can absorb some of the sounds the vibrations generate," Queen explains.

To make sure you're making as little noise as possible, Queen recommends using your vibrator under the covers. Lying on top of a toy instead of below it can also help muffle the sound, says Howard, along with wrapping it in a towel or putting on music while you use it.

But with the expert-approved sex toys below, you probably won't even need to do that. Ahead, find just the right toy (from Amazon, and other top-rated wellness brands) that will allow you to enjoy your me-time without worrying about anyone hearing you.

Best Quiet Vibrator Overall: Dame Kip Silicone Vibrator, $94

Best Compact Quiet Vibrator: Womanizer Liberty, $99

Best Quiet Bullet Vibrator: CalExotics Crystal High-Intensity Bullet Vibrator, $14

Most Powerful Quiet Vibrator: Lovehoney Flash 7 Function Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator, $16

Best Quiet Suction Vibrator: Womanizer Premium Eco Smart Silence Clitoral Stimulator, $110

1. Best Quiet Suction Vibrator: The Womanizer Premium Ecosmart Silence Clitoral Stimulator

This is Howard's #1 recommendation for people wanting to try a clitoral suction toy — one that cups your clitoris and stimulates it with a sucking motion. "It's a quiet and smart toy that recognizes when it's not in contact with skin and shuts itself off," she says. Not only that, but it's deemed "eco-smart" because it's recyclable and powered by an exchangeable battery. While some reviewers say this isn't as powerful as other suction toys, most of them love its efficiency.

Pros: Recyclable, automated on-and-off function

Cons: It may be less powerful than other suction toys

2. Most Compact: The Womanizer Liberty

Another powerful clitoral suction toy, this one stands out due to its compact size. "It fits nicely in the palm of your hand," says Jess O'Reilly, Ph.D., a resident sexologist at Astroglide. "It's whisper-quiet, waterproof, and runs for two full hours so that you can play to your heart's (or clitoris's) content." Not only that but there are two removable heads in different sizes, so you can pick the one that fits your clitoris best. Customers describe orgasming in under a minute with this, though it needs to be placed in the right position over the clitoris to work well.

Pros: Fits in your hand, removable heads

Cons: It can be hard to position correctly

3. Most Versatile: Cute Little F*ckers Emerald Zeep

This adorable little sex toy is also remarkably versatile, with ridges that provide a variety of textures and a shape with both pointed and rounded sides. Use the tip for gentle but targeted clitoral stimulation, nestle your clitoris between the two antennae, or place it between you and a partner during sex. "The Emerald Zeep is portable, powerful, quiet, and beginner-friendly and provides a variety of shapes, textures, and variable vibrations," says Lee Phillips, LCSW, psychotherapist and certified sex and couples therapist. The one thing it's not suited for is internal use, but you can use it nearly anywhere on the outside of your body.

Pros: Multi-purpose, fun appearance

Cons: Not for internal use

4. Most Discreet: Dame Kip Silicone Vibrator

"Medium-intense and quiet, the Kip from Dame is designed with multiple angles to try," says Queen. The silicone bullet vibe is shaped like a lipstick tube, which makes it easy to disguise, and it has a flat top as well as pointy edges. Not to mention, it's waterproof, has four vibration patterns, and comes in cute lavender and yellow colors. It's small and not the most powerful vibrator there is, but for many, it gets the job done.

Pros: Very discreet, four patterns of vibration

Cons: A bit too small for some reviewers

5. Best for G-Spot Stimulation: Svakom Cici

This internal massager, which sports a strong curve and textured ridges at the top to target the G-spot, has six vibration modes that are surprisingly powerful yet quiet. The Cici is "versatile enough for clitoral, vaginal, and G-spot play and would feel nice just about anywhere," says Queen. "It's also slender enough to use during partner sex and it can fit easily between partners during intercourse for clitoral stimulation." Plus, the top bends 30 degrees, so you can move it to fit your body. The slim shape makes it great for beginners, though it's less appropriate for those who desire more girth.

Pros: Curved body, ridged head

Cons: Very slim in size

6. Most Environmentally Friendly: Blush Gaia Eco Bullet

This simple eco vibrator is made entirely of compostable material, making it good for the environment. It's waterproof and sleek, with a one-inch width, and you can turn up the intensity by twisting the bottom. This one's vibrations are on the milder side, says Queen, so it may not be ideal for those who require lots of stimulation.

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Pros: Compostable, easy to control

Cons: Mild intensity

7. Tenga Iroha Mini

"Also giving mild vibes, the Iroha Mini comes in cute candy colors," says Queen. This waterproof toy fits right in your palm and has a rounded body as well as a pointy top for targeted stimulation. Its battery will last you through five hours of fun, and the small size may limit its uses but will allow you to take it anywhere with you.

Pros: Five-hour battery, cute appearance

Cons: Small size

8. Most Fashionable: Crave Vesper

This vibrator doubles as a piece of jewelry. That's right: You can actually wear it around your neck. "If you live with your parents and want a toy that doesn't look like a sex toy, this is a good option," says Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, professor of sexual communication at Cal State Fullerton and sex expert at Luvbites.co. "The one downside for newbies is that it's so small and delicate, it can be hard to hold steady," she adds. Still, for its size, it makes a surprisingly powerful (and beautiful) clitoral toy.

Pros: Wearable, powerful motor

Cons: Hard to hold steady

9. Best for Beginners: Jimmyjane Vibrating Finger Massager

This little vibe fits between two fingers, making it great to use during masturbation or to enhance fingering during partnered play. "The Jimmyjane vibrating finger massager is, in my opinion, the best for a first-time buyer because it's so easy to use and it's cost-efficient," says Suwinyattichaiporn. "It has a soft and round surface, so it's gentler for young adults who might not be used to vibrating toys. It's relatively quiet and has a handle for your two fingers to hold on to it, so it doesn't slip." Keep in mind that you will need to recharge it for approximately every hour of use.

Pros: Easy to grip, gentle

Cons: Shorter-lasting charge

10. Best Budget-Friendly Option: CalExotics Crystal High-Intensity Bullet Vibrator

This little bullet vibe is "ultra-compact, petite, and easy to carry," says Phillips. "The toy also has eight hours of battery life and is whisper quiet, which is great for discreet playing." It's got two speeds, is waterproof, and comes in shiny pink, blue, purple, and silver colors. Some say it's not the most powerful toy, but it's a steal for under $15.

Pros: Long battery life, portable

Cons: Limited strength

11. Best for Clitoral Stimulation: Lovehoney Flash 7-Function Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator

With three vibration patterns, four speeds, and a super grip-able waterproof silicone body, this is "the extra-quiet toy you want specifically for clitoral play," says Howard. "This toy is beginner-friendly and can be used with or without a partner." Shaped like a finger, the 5-inch vibrator isn't built for penetration but has a pointed tip that hits your clitoris just right.

Pros: Powerful modes, pointed tip

Cons: Not made for insertion

12. Best for Couples: We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition App Controlled Couples Kit

Howard recommends this kit to couples who want to experiment with sex toys together, whether they're in the same room or in different places (both toys can be controlled with an app, though some say it can get glitchy). It includes a vibrator that provides both vaginal and clitoral stimulation, as well as a cock ring, which can be placed around a penis or dildo or used on its own as a clitoral toy. "Using the app is optional but makes for sexy, fun, and pleasure," says Howard. "In addition, this kit is waterproof, which can increase a couple's options for sex play."

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Pros: App control, comes with toys for different bodies

Cons: The app can be glitchy at times

13. OhMyG Ultra Silent G-Zone Massager

With a curved handle and a massaging pearl offering direct G-spot or clitoral stimulation, this toy is "unlike any other," says O'Reilly. The pearl moves up and down in a come-hither motion that many people find is best for stimulating the G-spot. Plus, O'Reilly adds, "it was created with silence in mind," with three barely audible intensity levels. Made of waterproof medical-grade silicone, it's safe for your body and USB-rechargeable, with each charge lasting about an hour.

Pros: Massaging pearl feature, high-quality material

Cons: Shorter-lasting charge

14. Best Wearable: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

With one side that fits around the clit and a bulbous end inside the vagina, this vibrator will actually stay put when you insert it, so you can use it hands-free. With three speeds and four patterns, the vibrations are app-controllable and powerful yet quiet. "The Lovense app-controlled love egg is also great for silent play on the go," says O'Reilly. Each charge gives you five hours of use, and the vibrations can even be synched to music or other sounds. Still, not everyone can orgasm from this, since the vibrations are concentrated internally and not on the clitoris.

Pros: App control, vibrations synch to music

Cons: Lack of clitoral vibrations

15. Emojibator

This clitoral vibrator is shaped like the eggplant emoji, which means not only that using it will feel flirty and fun but also that anyone who finds it probably won't recognize what it is. The quiet vibrations also help with that as Queen puts it, "the laughs and squeals this Eggplant Emojibator will evoke will be way louder than the vibe itself." The waterproof, battery-operated toy is small but deceptively powerful, with 10 vibration patterns.

Pros: Eggplant design, 10 vibration patterns

Cons: Requires batteries

16. LELO F1S V2

Those with penises can also enjoy powerful yet quiet vibrations, thanks to luxury brand LELO's take on the classic sex sleeve. Two motors provide rumbles that surround the entire penis, and the soft silicone provides a thrillingly warm feel. Plus, reviewers describe it as surprisingly quiet given the intensity of the seven vibration patterns (some even say it's too intense).

Pros: Seven vibration patterns, soft silicone

Cons: Very intense

17. Maude Vibe 3-Speed Flutter Tip

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This hand-held, tapered vibrator is designed to target certain spots, which means you can get major stimulation when focused on one area. It's made from 100% platinum-grade silicone (safe for the body) and can be used in the shower or bath. However, the brand notes it should not be fully submerged. "This was my very first vibrator and I love it so much," wrote one satisfied Sephora customer. "There was not much noise when using it, and no matter what speed it was on, I felt it was not audible to anyone but me."

Pros: Powerful vibrations, discreet

Cons: Battery-operated only